Ways your partner loves you for the wrong reasons
There is so much deceit in the dating games, truth is that there seems to be many relationships existing for the wrong reasons which at the end will lead to many heartbreaks and emotional trauma.
A rich man will maybe take his time to date just because he doesn’t want to end up falling for the wrong girl who probably just want to date him because of his money. Many women have found out a bit too late that some guys only really loved them because of their beauty or voluptuous bodies.
The bigger problem in all these is that, many of these people who love for the wrong reasons are very good pretenders and even the devil fear them. By the time you come to know about their true intentions it might be too late.
So, in the midst of all these deceit, how do you determine someone who loves you for the wrong reasons? This inconclusive list below will go a long way in pointing out someone who might be with you for all the wrong reasons.
• Greatly imbalanced efforts: you might be the only one who is really investing in the relationship because you really want to make it work. Meanwhile your partner doesn’t care if the relationship works or not. Beware, this is a one of the wrong reasons he or she is with you.
• They demand too much money: Financial gain is one of the biggest reasons why people fake emotions just to be with someone. If you spouse/partner treats like a personal ATM Card, that could actually be why are they are ‘in love’ with you.
• They act right only to get sex: In this present generation, relationship hardly survives without sex whether you are married or not. If you noticed that you partner/spouse becomes only romantic and caring just to have sex with you then he/she loves you for the wrong reason. After they have gotten what they wanted they switch to their nonchalant behavior till when he/she wants you again.
• Doesn’t show you off: Your spouse/partner doesn’t like hanging out with you like his/her friends does with their partners because he/she feels you are not attractive enough maybe he/she is cheating on you. Whenever your spouse/partner brings up excuses when you suggest that you both should hang out then he/she is ‘in love’ with you for the wrong reason.
The list can go on and on, but with these few signs mentioned above then you should know that you are in the wrong relationship with the wrong person.